we had joint custody and I had visitation rights, but I could not find her to enforce my visitation rights. What if I were to give him that chance and he didnt return him? despite all his false accusations which lead to CPS getting involved to interview me (which leaves my name in the system forever now) I am still civil with him for the sake of our daughter. I actually agree the system is garbage and favors women. He was a mental abuser, and won custody of my daughters because I couldnt get the nerve or money to stand up to him 11 years ago. When is the last time you told that woman thank you for everything she does in a day for your child? I dont expect her antics will stop until my sons 18, and Im no longer legally bound to her. If your ex or soon to be ex violates the court orders, make sure you document all of the particulars and notify your lawyer as soon as practically possible. A week an half later I get a call from the school telling me that my children are being taken by an unnamed person. I didnt feel alone anymore. Its not always women Mike. We cant just pick her up and put her in the car because we are scared she will freak out and she will end up getting injured. I said I will end up calling the police but dont want to have to do that to my son. My exs wife told me we are handling this today! If physical custody is awarded, though it may shock my son for a moment, then that will work too. When an exchange happens in a public place (like your child's school, daycare, or a location near a police station), there's less risk of altercations as the presence of other people can help to dial down tensions. Finally you will both go to get the child(ren) and three things will occur, 1 The mother can deny the visitation and the police CANNOT obtain the child(ren) Go rogue. If you have a criminal backround you will probably be started off will supervised visits. I cant afford 4000 fora lawyer.. SMH. How many packages of $12 toilet paper do you buy in a month, or tubes of $4 toothpaste, or bottles of $2 hand soap? Now Christmas comes about she wants to have my daughter for the holiday cool no problem now she not trying to give her back . He sends the police to my home on his visitations to come get my daughter and I refuse. Told his daughter he can get her a medical Marijauna card for any illness she may have but till he can afford it she can smoke his and her uncles. My bf has been denied his court ordered (scheduled) visitation by the mom. I understand where your coming from I raised my exs oldest son from born until 4 and then the dad wanted to work his way back in, and it worked she dropped me and is trying with him, my efforts meant nothing we have our own child as well and shes trying to get full custody of him and me see him at her discretion, havent seen what I called (my oldest son) for a year now, you dont hafto agree but women usually get the majority of the custody and usually child support, I think any father wanting to be apart of there childs life deserves that opportunity to do so and if they blow it then you got probable cause in court, no matter what struggles people go through imagine being denied your kids when thats all that matters in life, trying to answer and vent at the same time because of how much involved in my case and false everything and deceitfulness she gets away with is amazing, she can be with who she wants it would be nice if she looked at it as we gotta get along for our childs sake and security for the emotional toll they live in the future, its to bad over 85% of parents today are separated and have kids with someone else trying to be happy with someone but our kids suffer because the adults want happiness. Dont give up. I had a lawyer tell me last year I let too much time go by and its too late to do anything about it now. If she truely does not want to go and you do not think it is her best interest to go, do not send her. DAWN: Many men would LOVE the opportunity to raise their children. However, in our experience, when my husbands ex kept his kids on our weekend, we called the police and her boyfriend was there to refuse to give them to us. I just nee honesty from people like yourself. But, she got served by him and we lice in Michigan and hes scared shes gonna take him and not being him back. Hello! He hasnt help with her at all. Since I have many times contacted the, asking if they had a updated address they mailed me her current address. Has even sat across from pickup location till hes at the last of the 20 minute window. Dear God my child will be an adult thinking I dont love her enough to co tact her before this is over. There must be something I can do. Stop doing this to mothers and fathers people oh, it is not okay at all. Justice Rajnish Bhatnagar issued notice on the plea by the authorities seeking the trial court record, examining its legality and setting aside the October 2021 order of the sessions court. She left the state, to Mississippi that night. Heres my suggestion. I like to keep this as civil as possible for some reason she believes that I am coming back but that environment was toxic and no way of me or from me to go back to anything toxic. He is my priority. Three weeks before leaving she has only told us his son has to be back a day earlier than we have booked. Hes file d numerous tests but as long as a passes 2 consecutive tests he can get his visitation rights back. well we have joint custody now and on the 22 of may we will court again for full. Stay up-to-date with how the law affects your life. And Im paying child support, got her a car . Thank you for any and all advice. Hell no its not. I also learned that she was planing to abscond with the children to another state until this happened. Take matters into your own hands. All while going back more and more for child support, medical, etc , all while not working at all, but not caring about the fact that he has to live at poverty level and can barely afford to have them and do things with them. now he and her husband and getting a divorce and she took him out of school and hes been with us for the past 2 weeks. I live in the DFW area and I am the custodial parent of my 14 and 10 year old sons. Go back to court and report hes been absent and ask that the order be adjusted accordingly. The mother had us jumped and beaten bad, well when it came time to court she lied . Only the police officers couldnt do anything. But, I was kidless that weekend. The email address cannot be subscribed. He is also unable to exercise his right to time with the boys during Spring Break, his extended Summer visitation, or any of the other holidays he is entitled to. I never know where my daughter is, whos taking care of her or whos gonna pick her up or drop her off. Sometimes calling the police makes things worse but that will be a decision you will have to make. Even after the report is filed, many dads are still left wondering how to get the child back from the non-custodial parent. I need full custody. And then spend the next however many years not taking proper care of their kids, not working, infringing on fathers parenting time, controlling, withholding, meeting large family medical deductibles in February (with nonsense doctor visits), etc. The officer returned fire, striking the suspect in the leg. How many nights lately have you been woken up multiple times because of your childs nightmares? So trust me dads, these Courts go against Good moms too. You unfortunately have to make every attempt to get your child to his other parent according to the schedule on the court ordered or mediation agreement for visitation days and times if the time is documented. Michelle Ferreri licensed in PA and NJ only - Philadelphia, PA. Dorothy Walsh Ripka licensed in OH, IL, MO, KY and TX only. Now what were you saying about a vacation and your damn break? Will I get in trouble by the court for withholding him? My wifes baby daddy ignored her calls so she wasnt able to talk to her daughter what should I do? If she refuses to give you the kids she can simply call the police show them the original order and the new enforcement order. So the child has been with us. That image is burning in my mind. he then does not return her, he removes her from school during his non placement time and keeps her for 3 to 4 days( no knowledge of where she is staying) . Twice she was warned by the judge about him and now she is blaming me for all of financial problems because he was all but ordered to never return by the Sheriff. Keep taking her to court over and over until she gives in or gets contempt for kidnapping. This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. we think that the ex girlfriend is encouraging her to tell her dad that she doesnt have to come over if she doesnt want to, and when we go over there to pick her up she throws a fit and wont get in the car. There isnt any other way. Please send me an email and thank you. that county has jurisdiction of that minor of course unless he lies to the court. Home / Articles / Violating Child Custody Orders: Should You Call The Police? Thats what ccw are for get 1 then if he hurts your family handle it. And I dont like him being over there with his new wifes son who has been abbusive to my son and has been kicked out of many schools. Rips my innocent daughter from my arms and when I reach for her he uses her body as a weapon against me. He threatens her and uses intimidation to get around the custody agreement, which we would like to enforce reasonably (give him a Saturday every second week and an evening or something). Who cares if you arent supporting them? Hed like him to come visit. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Find a SafeExchangePoint. The system knows the Ex-Wifes wont pay their child supports anyway. Why is this so difficult for women to understand?! Tags:divorce tips, editors pick custody, kidnapping, parenting time, visitation. In the past few months I have gone from 50/50 everything to 3 days a month and no desision making. Now I really would like to get some advice from someone whos been thru a similar case. The issue can then be taken before a judge and ruled upon then. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); THIS IS AN ATTORNEY ADVERTISEMENT. Is it specific in times days? Just over two years ago my ex came to me and said she would like to do one week on, and one week off with the kids and in exchange she would have the child support halted. In March 2018 till the end of August 2018 social services funded supervisors. You have to stand your ground and enforce your full visitation, otherwise it just looks like you didnt want the time. Then we heard a car coming down the street. There is a difference in what maybe writing and what is practiced. I will make this very easy, go to the courthouse and file a motion to enforce.once they enforce the decree you already have that says either you or your wife can pick up, keep the original and the new motion with you. They will award temp custody immediately. I need someone to talk to and help asap # 929 230 2041. We are learning that the law only works for people who follow it, and the police dont care. You can say, honestly, that you havent done disgusting things to your ex?? I had to check myself into a out patient hospital. One of the officers started running to the patrol car, he said Ill get her. Everyone knows youre a damn good father. Will I get in trouble for kidnapping? all Good parents need to recognize that the problem is bad Judges and bad Attorneys. Have a copy of your decree with you. My sons father is in and out of my sons life, never knows what days are his and now that my son is in high school and has even less time to go with his father he filed police reports every time my son told him he had practice or school-related activities to do. the school where mine is refuses to comply as well the police say file in court no one cares about court orders here where I am at I have not seen my little one in almost a month now I feel like unless I do something it will be even longer but what? Can anyone help ?!?!! I had to go thru 2 false accusations of domestic violence and proved to be innocent. And youve got needs too. My son is now doing the same thing your step daughter is doing, refusing to come to visits, even sending me hateful text messages. Where are you when your child breaks a favorite toy and someone has to tell them with a broken heart that they wont have the money to replace it? Name I need to know what to do when the court fails to enforce a court judgement. The first time he was awarded he left the country for 3 months and didnt bother visiting.he came in may he saw him 3 times from June to October and when I would go to meet him he would not show and not call me Until night time saying he just woke up. We are worried that shes not telling the truth like always. I went to visit my kids and I did a lot of researching and verifying with the County PD of where I was visiting. Did you send in 22 separate gift bags that cost $20 for the last class party? Mine is still doing so. I just wanted to reach out to you. They are not only yours to claim when youre showing off how they have your eyes and how you treated them to ice cream one weekend. I am going through the same thing and iy sucks. Chicago police said at about 3 p.m., a 38-year-old male armored truck guard left a business at the strip mall. I also hired a private investigator. He will not take them to the doctors when ill (strep and worse). Court order is clear- kids go with dad every other Saturday and Sunday 9:30-6:30; mom is not to interfere or even call kids during dads time. Support has nothing to do with visitation. What should I do? Yeah, but what happens if the mother changes her name and your sons name in a sealed name change, and disappears. How many hours do you spend each week helping with homework, and are you paid to do it? If the son doesnt want to go to the mentor or stay with the mentor for the entire duration, soon a summons arrives with mom stating that dad has somehow violatedback to court he goes until its thrown out because the court didnt order the mentor program. What about the name of their teacher? Do you realize that no matter what happened between you and the woman you once loved enough to have a child with, that you are still responsible for the financial stability of your child and supporting the person who is devoting her entire life to raising your child? We have an attorney but cant reach her . No Im not a bad dad I help with many other things above child support. Ignoring his tantrum is the very best thing you can do. You can give me whatever legal jargon or quote whatever statue. Is your child on your mind at night and you cant sleep because it hurts so much? Wrong. Also she is now performing solo sex webcam shows from her home, although she claims not to do it when he is there. Its his grandmother that wants to keep him from me and his dad goes along because thats what his mom wants and shes a hatful woman. Smh. We have a court date for my objection on August 15 2017. No. Then social services say its up to the special guardian. Do not assume that you can make changes on your own unless the court order specifically says that you can. Have your wife keep a copy with her as well. I dont mean to be pesimistic, because I am going throught the same thing right this second. its actually sometimes the other way around also, unfortunatelyUnfortunate for all of us and the kids. I spent 11 years fighting the worthless legal system we have in this country, and guess whatI am giving up. Unfortunately us step parents have zero authority in these matters. Christina Sapiano. Unfortunately, I never went back to court and had the custody and visitation order modified or got our agreement in writing. My question is: What are my chances of a judge in Tarrant County granting my request for permission to relocate? we dont know what to do anymore, is there something legal that we can do? Can I call the police and have them escort me to her house so I can get my kids? it generalizes a FATHER as the B side, mommy as the A side. The boys have only been able to see their dad 8 to 10 hours a week on Sundays due to my exs job. The man was taken into custody by . I didnt I took her to court for full physical custody and now I have custody of my son. I live in fairfax with my sever year old daughter and there is a court order for visitation for her dad to pick her up every other week. She never told me, but notified the boys school so when I went to pick them up from school, the school would not release them to me. Yes, get back in court ASAP. It is completely devastating to go through something like this. Will u read my recent post and let us know what to Do? My Husband and his ex girlfriend do not get along, they have a 10 year old daughter together. If something were to ever happen to that child who you let go of with that thought in the a k of your mind would you be able to live with yourself?? fisrt she lied and made me feel like we was going to work out our issuses and get a apartment together . 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